If you're on facebook, you know what this means. With the controversy over Weinstein abusing so many women in hollywood (and some of the stories are absolutely horrible), women have decided to use this moment to come out to let the world know they too have been sexually abused in some way. They say 1 out of 6 women have been abused, which I think is probably low (even though that's still high). I know my wife has been, and she hasn't posted on facebook because her parents are now on it, and if they saw that they'd immediately be asking her what happened. So many women are either afraid to come out against their attacker, or fear nobody will believe them, or think it's their fault.
I bring this up not because it's important, or because someone who is fluid gender like me has a more compassionate stance than a lot of men might. I think about how different my life could have been had I been born a woman. Would I too have been sexually abused? Beyond all the hardship that women have to go through already (looked down upon as the lower sex both physically and pay grade), they are also on constant alert of being attacked.
This goes back to my guilt of being transgender. I get to sort of experience both sides in a way, and picking and choosing the best experience of both. It's sort of like that movie "soul man" where the lesson he learns about being black is that he can stop taking tanning pills and become white anytime he wants, a real black person doesn't have that option.